Assumption is an easy way to avoid personal responsibility in a relationship. It allows one to avoid difficult, honest conversations in favor of defaulting to an imaginary realm where we have the illusion of control and power.
What we wish more adults knew about sex (and what would be amazing if it were taught in school)… The sex ed class you always wished for: the real and dirty scoop on sex.
Once you create an open marriage, there’s no way you’ll ever choose monogamy again. That’s certainly what I thought as I somewhat disdainfully regarded what I viewed as a dead relationship paradigm… But some surprising lessons were in store for me.
Everyone is a garden; and relationships, like gardens, thrive best when they are tended to with love, attentive pruning, and boundaries. Our Sacred Marriage is a lot like a garden – it would not be thriving without death, decay, and getting dirty.
We have numerous examples of happily ever after to aim for (mostly fictional) and then we struggle to create it because no one is teaching us how. Here’s what to aim at creating instead…
My long distance love (AKA “Tigre”) was finally coming home and I wanted it to be a homecoming he’d never forget. In creating a wild adventure for us, I learned 5 key things about creating a wild love.