Assumption is an easy way to avoid personal responsibility in a relationship. It allows one to avoid difficult, honest conversations in favor of defaulting to an imaginary realm where we have the illusion of control and power.
Everyone is a garden; and relationships, like gardens, thrive best when they are tended to with love, attentive pruning, and boundaries. Our Sacred Marriage is a lot like a garden – it would not be thriving without death, decay, and getting dirty.
We have numerous examples of happily ever after to aim for (mostly fictional) and then we struggle to create it because no one is teaching us how. Here’s what to aim at creating instead…
My long distance love (AKA “Tigre”) was finally coming home and I wanted it to be a homecoming he’d never forget. In creating a wild adventure for us, I learned 5 key things about creating a wild love.